Thomas “Tom” Albert Hickok, 87, of Glasgow, Montana passed away on February 10, 2020 at Valley View Nursing home.
Tom was born in Saco, Montana on December 10, 1932 to Major B. and Sara B. (Kays) Hickok. He joined sisters Virginia and Sara “Barbara”, and brother Norman in the family home north of Hinsdale in the Genevieve Community. His brother Robert “Gordon” was born four years later. The family moved to a home in Hinsdale in 1938, and Tom attended 1st & 2nd grades there.
For the next years of elementary school, he lived with his Aunt Mae and Uncle George Hickok in the Opheim area and attended Bog Coulee, New Baylor and Opheim schools. He then started 7th grade in Glentana, but finished the year in Hinsdale when he went back to live with his parents in 1946. His years spent with George and Mae were filled with farm chores, fencing and herding sheep. The summer of 1946, when he was 13, he and his brother Gordon contracted polio, and Tom spent the next 2 years at St. Vincent’s Hospital in Billings, Montana. After being confined to a bed for the first year, Tom progressed to a wheelchair and was able to complete 8th grade while in the hospital. By June of 1948, he was able to use crutches, return home and graduate from Hinsdale High School in 1952.
After high school, Tom worked on his family’s farm, hauled cattle and also drove a mail route. In December of 1952, he began working as a bookkeeper at Markle’s Hardware store in Glasgow and spent 25 years there. In 1978, he took another bookkeeping job at Terry Chevrolet in Glasgow and worked there until he retired in 1985.
Tom married Mary Alice (Campbell) Hickok on December 10, 1954 at the Methodist Church in Glasgow. This was his 22nd birthday, as well as his parents’ 35th wedding anniversary. Together, they raised five children: Sally born in 1958, Peggy in 1960, Mark in 1963, K.C. in 1966 and Kelli in 1973. They loved being parents, and also extended that love to the many children who came into their home for the daycare they provided.
The aftereffects of polio filled Tom’s life with many challenges, requiring him to wear leg braces and use crutches, but it never kept him from working hard, and he complained very little. After the death of Mary Alice in 1999, he began using a power wheelchair. He sold the family home in 2005 and moved to Federal Way, Washington where he enjoyed the temperate climate and companionship of classmates who lived in the area. One of these classmates, Carole Brown, had handicapped accessible living quarters in the lower level of her home, and Tom lived with some degree of independence, while still having assistance and friendship provided over his time there. When his health began to decline in 2016 he moved to Valley Health Care Center Billings, and in May of 2017, he moved back to Glasgow and resided at Valley View Nursing Home.
Tom will be remembered for his strength of character, work ethic, attention to detail, punctuality (which meant being 15 minutes early), and teasing, wry sense of humor. Along with his curly hair, he passed these attributes on to his children and grandchildren and lives on in the hearts and memories of everyone who loved him.
Tom was preceded in death by his wife, parents, siblings and grandson, Cody Carlsen.
Tom is survived by his children: Sally (Les Carlsen) Hickok, Peggy Hickok, Mark (Nancy) Hickok, K.C. (Jennifer) Hickok and Kelli (Greg) Nybakken; grandchildren: Laramie (Ryan) Dean-Young, Jory Johnston, Jill Johnston, Jerica (Jack) VandeKop , Heather (Tyler Erickson) Hickok, Katy (Matthew) Heinert, Colter Hickok, Sara Hickok, Katelin (Taylor) Anderson, Hayley, Brianna and Cash Nybakken and 10 great-grandchildren; numerous nieces and nephews.
Service Schedule
Family Receiving Friends
5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m.
Friday February 14, 2020
Bell Mortuary
701 2nd Avenue South
Glasgow, Montana 59230
Reception
11:30 a.m. to 1:00 p.m.
Saturday February 15, 2020
Bell Mortuary
701 2nd Avenue South 641 2nd Avenue North
Glasgow, Montana 59230
Service Schedule
Family Receiving Friends
5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m.
Friday February 14, 2020
Bell Mortuary
701 2nd Avenue South
Glasgow, Montana 59230
Reception
11:30 a.m. to 1:00 p.m.
Saturday February 15, 2020
Bell Mortuary
701 2nd Avenue South 641 2nd Avenue North
Glasgow, Montana 59230
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Jackie Lindberg says
How Great it is,
To have known someone,
That makes saying goodbye,
So hard